Home    Subscribe    Contact    Login

The Questions They Love to Ask About Your Breast Feeding

by helenonthesofa (follow)
Check out my Weekend Notes articles here: www.weekendnotes.com/profile/160877
Mothering (64)      Breastfeeding (16)      October Contest (5)     
I must preface this article by saying that I'm not surrounded by people that hate breastfeeding....moreover I think I've encountered people who just haven't had sufficient information about breastfeeding as a parent or as a non parent and therefore there's a natural amount of curiosity about what me and my boobs are up to. In raising (and breastfeeding) my two sons I've been asked a fair number of questions on the topic, some with alarming frequency and it would be easy to just say, 'it's none of your business' or other more decent witty comebacks, but on a good day I'm trying to instead provide some facts and information on the topic to fuel improved knowledge on the subject.

What they'll ask you when you breastfeed

What To Expect

Whilst breastfeeding is a truly personal journey, be prepared to suddenly have your choices questioned and to hear a number of questions (some on a frequent almost daily basis). Here's what you might get used to hearing from friends, family and even the oddly empowered stranger who suddenly thinks your breastfeeding is also their business (it's not).

the questions they'll ask when you breastfeed
- "What are you looking at?" Image": Morguefile

1. When are you planning on finishing breastfeeding?
2. Do you still need to breast feed, can't he have real food yet?
3. Can't he take a bottle?
4. Doesn't that hurt now that he has teeth?

the questions they'll ask when you breastfeed
- Morguefile

5. When do you plan on weaning him off breast milk?
6. Can't you just give him cows milk now?
7. Is he finished feeding yet?
8. Will you stop feeding when he's 1?
9. Don't you cover him/her up when you're nursing?
10. Shouldn't you go to a special room for that?

The questions vary but the one thing that remains, is that these are your choices, your decisions and if breastfeeding is what you've decided (and are able) to do for your child, then get used to the questions. Take the chance to share your experiences (positive and negatives), and to share information and support to those asking. And to the negative folks that you may encounter out there, here's a great link to some awesome comebacks if you're feeling particularly spirited or cheeky.

#October Contest
I like this Article - 7
Articles by helenonthesofa on Other Hubs
My Google Plus Profile
ID: 25864
[ Submit a Comment ]
Men (1)
Poetry (4)
Fear (1)
Health (15)
Copyright 2012-2021 OatLabs ABN 18113479226. mobile version